In Memoriam

I have a good friend who has been diagnosed with ALS (Lou Gehrig's Disease). She is a member of my Red Hats group, the Scarlet Snickerdoodles. She put in a request today. She is planning her Memorial Service and wants to be sure that we attend in all our Red Hat Glory and plethora of red and purple garments, hats, gloves, pins, and whatever else red and purple we can drape ourselves in.

It socked me in the stomach and left me breathless. She's dying. She's not just terribly sick; she's over the top sick with a disease that there is no cure for. She is going to leave us soon and wants to plan a last big bash where she won't be attending.

If you were planning your own memorial, what would you do? What would you say?

Here's to Lois - my friend. Here's to a special person who is a friend to all who meet her, who has a daughter and granddaughters that adore her, who has a husband who thinks she's just tops; who is part of a group of nutty women who like to wear purple and big flamboyant hats.

Here's to Lois who only desires to make memories, lots of memories, everlasting memories.

Here is to my vibrant, living, breathing, very, very, very good friend. Lois.



MarmiteToasty said...

What a very sad, yet loved filled post.... I have no words.....



Joseph Pulikotil said...


It is very sad that your friend is afflicted with ALS disease and it is shocking that there is no cure for it.

It must be extremely difficult for you to bear this terrible news and go through the memorial service to comply with her request.

I am very curious to know whether every one will agree to participate in this service especially in view of the fact that your friend is still living.

I admire the brave lady Lois for displaying so much guts and courage in the face of such serious clamity that has befallen her.

I hope the doctors are mistaken and there is some remedy for this disease.

I pray and implore the Almighty God to save her life.

Cheryl said...

Here's to Lois! And here is to her friend, YOU! Cheers! Cher